[RoadRunnerTR21]

edmck I feel for you. I've been divorced twice. My current wife and I have been together almost 25 years now. With that said, there are two pieces of advice I can try to offer you. First, get rid of the anger as quickly as possible. Anger will do nothing but tear you down. Second, as hard as it may be, don't isolate yourself. That's the worst thing you can do. Go have coffee, play cards, play golf or whatever with the guys. Stay away from the couples thing at first. Then ease yourself back into the couples thing. If you are a nice guy, nobody will think badly of you. Trust me on this. I've been there, done that and have two tee shirts that say so. Good luck!