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When our youngest left for college, the empty-next syndrome hit me like a ton of bricks! Never thought it would but boy was I taken by surprise. I'd walk past the kids pictures on the wall in the hallway and end up balling my head off. Although I wasn't aware of it, over time I finally started adapting. That really became apparent when the first visit home happened. I was so happy that our son was home -- for about two weeks that is and then I was ready for him to go back to school. Like someone mentioned, it's a grieving process but it does pass. The void begins to fill with other interests and doing more things with your spouse. Remember the freedom you had BEFORE kids? Well, it's 10 times better AFTER kids and a lot of years of experience, knowledge, and wisdom under your belt!
Cathy
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