Well, I would just like it known, for the record -that I no longer fall into the "weight criminal" category! I know that I feel better! May even sleep well tonight!
However come to think of it I guess I still need to weight the truck and the trailer to verify that I am within specs, but given that many of you full the same rig with the same truck I will continue to breath better, although poorer! This fun stuff sure is expensive!
Thank you all for your support and your great advice and answers to all of my dumb, dumb question! (I'm sure there will be more - unfortunately). You can all consider yourselves saints in my book!